"Not all toxic people are cruel and uncaring. Some of them love us dearly. Many of them have good intentions. Most are toxic to our being simply because their needs and way of existing in the world force us to compromise ourselves and our happiness. They aren’t inherently bad people, but they aren’t the right people for us. And as hard as it is, we have to let them go. Life is hard enough without being around people who bring you down, and as much as you care, you can’t destroy yourself for the sake of someone else. You have to make your wellbeing a priority. Whether that means breaking up with someone you care about, loving a family member from a distance, letting go of a friend, or removing yourself from a situation that feels painful — you have every right to leave and create a safer space for yourself."
— Daniell Koepke (via bana05)
My biggest regret in turning down a potential porn career will always be that I never got to
fuck be sexually annihilated by James Deen. (I probably wouldn’t have gotten that big what with, you know, the scars, but shhhh let me think there was a chance.)
Okay, I need some of this in my life soon. I really should take advantage of some of the talented sex geeks out here in the Yay Area to make that happen.